I'm not good at this

I guess part of the problem in our marriage stems from the fact that we have never really been a WE. I have always been I. This was illustrated last night when I ran some last minute errands and came home with just the thing I'D been thinking about for Zachary, HIS son. We don't shop together, we don't do much together at all.
Now I must go off to work. The store is open from 8 a.m. until 10 tonight. Pray for me.