What do you want/Why am I so unpopular?

Beware: It's all about me.

I feel unpopular.
Don't get me wrong, I really appreciate the 20 or so folks who come here everyday and the eight people who actually have me on their Blogroll are my best friends.
My stats say I have 40 some visitors but I'm pretty sure half of them are me.
I just wonder when I cannot get someone to reply to an email or I notice that of all the people I read regulary only a couple ever return the favour.
What is it that I need to do? I feel like the wallflower that no one notices.
Am I not pretty, funny, smart enough for you?
Do you want more pain and angst? I can do that!

Ok, now I'm just whining.
Sorry about that, talk amongst yourselves.